"The father of the righteous shall greatly rejoice: and he that begetteth a wise child shall have joy of him." — Proverbs 23:24 (KJV)
The short answer
The Bible treats children as a gift and a heritage from the Lord, entrusted to parents for a season. It calls parents to raise them with steady instruction in God's ways, to discipline with love rather than provoke to anger, and to point them, by word and example, toward faith. Anchored in Proverbs 22:6 and Ephesians 6:4.
Parenting is one of the most demanding and tender callings there is, and the Bible speaks to it with both realism and hope. It does not hand parents a formula that guarantees outcomes; it gives a posture — children received as a gift, taught with patience, corrected with love, and entrusted to God. Below are eight passages, quoted exactly from the King James Version, grouped around the questions mothers and fathers most often carry.
Are children really a gift from God?
Before the Bible asks anything of parents, it reframes how they see the child in front of them: not a burden or an accident, but a trust from the hand of God.
"Lo, children are an heritage of the LORD: and the fruit of the womb is his reward." — Psalm 127:3 (KJV)
To call a child a heritage and a reward is to say they are given, not earned or owned. On the long, tiring days, this verse quietly resets the heart: the little one before you is a gift entrusted to your care.
How should parents teach their children about God?
Scripture pictures faith passed on not mainly through formal lessons but through the ordinary rhythm of daily life, and through the example a parent sets.
"And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart: And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up." — Deuteronomy 6:6-7 (KJV)
Notice where teaching happens — at home, on the road, at bedtime, at waking. Faith is handed down in the unglamorous in-between moments, and it begins with words already alive in the parent's own heart.
"And if it seem evil unto you to serve the LORD, choose you this day whom ye will serve; whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the flood, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land ye dwell: but as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD." — Joshua 24:15 (KJV)
Joshua's resolve begins with himself and his household. Children learn most from watching whom their parents actually serve; a settled, personal faith is the deepest lesson of all.
What does the Bible say about disciplining children?
Scripture speaks plainly of loving correction — not as anger or control, but as the patient shaping of a life for the child's own good and rest.
"Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it." — Proverbs 22:6 (KJV)
To train up is to guide with intention over time, in the direction a child is meant to grow. It is a proverb of hope, not an ironclad guarantee — a general wisdom that early, faithful shaping tends to endure.
"Correct thy son, and he shall give thee rest; yea, he shall give delight unto thy soul." — Proverbs 29:17 (KJV)
Loving correction is presented as a gift to the child, and eventually a joy to the parent. Consistent, kind boundaries are part of how care is expressed, not the opposite of it.
"He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes." — Proverbs 13:24 (KJV)
In the language of Proverbs, the rod is the image of loving guidance and correction rather than cruelty. The whole point is love: a parent who cares enough to shape and teach, not one who leaves a child to grow up untended.
How should parents guard their children's hearts?
Alongside its calls to teach and correct, the Bible sets a tender limit for parents: discipline must never curdle into harshness that wounds a child's spirit.
"And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord." — Ephesians 6:4 (KJV)
The same verse that calls for nurture and admonition first says: do not provoke. Guidance is meant to build a child up, not to exasperate. The tone matters as much as the instruction.
"Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged." — Colossians 3:21 (KJV)
Scripture cares about a child's inner world — that they not be left discouraged. Parenting done God's way protects the heart even as it shapes the behaviour.
Frequently asked questions
What does the Bible say about raising children?
The Bible calls parents to raise children with patient, God-centred instruction. Proverbs 22:6 urges parents to train up a child in the way he should go (KJV), and Deuteronomy 6 asks parents to teach God's words diligently unto thy children, talking of them through the ordinary hours of the day (KJV). Fathers and mothers are told to bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4, KJV). The heart of biblical parenting is loving, steady guidance that points a child toward God.
Does the Bible support disciplining children?
Yes, but the Bible frames discipline as loving correction, not harshness. Proverbs 29:17 promises that faithful correction brings rest and delight to a parent's soul (KJV). At the same time, Scripture sets a clear guardrail: fathers are told not to provoke your children to wrath (Ephesians 6:4, KJV) and to avoid provoking them to anger, lest they be discouraged (Colossians 3:21, KJV). Godly discipline is patient, measured, and always aimed at a child's good, never at venting frustration.
"Children's children are the crown of old men; and the glory of children are their fathers." — Proverbs 17:6 (KJV)
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